Dumped & Heartbroken

I've recently got my heart broken and it's been really difficult for me to let go and I think about him all the time. I try to talk to him but he doesn't want to, and I'm doing enough of my part to keep this relationship going or whatever it's left of it anyway.

He never even gave me a hint about breaking up because just a few weeks ago, he was so in love with me and now I'm like a nobody in his life. My question is how did this happen? And how do I even start to move on and begin forgetting him?

A/ Any ideas I can offer will only be conjecture. No-one can explain why love comes and goes. My belief is that if it's real love, it can't end so perhaps he really didn't feel as much as you did and that's why you broke up. The push-pull effect though is very painful because it doesn't give you the opportunity to move on.

You probably won't like my advice but here it is - stop trying to contact him. He's just going to back off more and more if you don't and also, you need time to grieve and heal. You can never be a nobody unless you think that of yourself.




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