Living together without marrying does not mean you give up your rights. In Australia, de facto couples are often treated much like married couples when it comes to dividing assets, super and debts. Knowing how the law works can make a huge difference when separation happens, especially if you want to avoid stress and protect your financial future.
What counts as a de facto relationship
A de facto relationship is more than just living under one roof. Courts look at the overall picture: how long you lived together, whether you pooled finances, if you had children, and even how friends and family saw your partnership.
The rules are set out in section 4AA of the Family Law Act. While two years together is the usual threshold, you may qualify earlier if you share a child, made significant contributions, or registered the relationship in your state or territory.
Why time limits matter
You generally have two years from separation to apply for a property settlement. Leave it too long and you'll need the court's permission, which is rarely straightforward. The Federal Circuit and Family Court explains how extensions can sometimes be granted, but acting within the deadline gives you far more certainty.
What counts as property
Property isn't just the house or car. Courts include the full financial picture, such as real estate, savings, investments, superannuation, business interests and debts like mortgages or loans. Everything is valued as at the time of settlement, not when you separated " so rising or falling markets can affect the outcome.
How property is divided
When dividing property, courts use a four-step process:
- Identify and value assets and debts.
- Consider contributions, both financial and non-financial " parenting and homemaking are recognised alongside income.
- Assess future needs, such as health, age, earning capacity and care of children.
- Check fairness overall, making adjustments if needed.
Most couples prefer to agree without a full court battle. If you settle by agreement, it's best to formalise it through Consent Orders or a Binding Financial Agreement so it's legally binding and enforceable. Many people explore these options by starting with guidance on
Property Settlement to understand how the process works.
Special situations that matter
Even straightforward separations can have extra layers:
- Short relationships: Even under two years, you may still have rights if there was a child, substantial contributions, or a registered partnership.
- Superannuation in WA: Since 2022, de facto couples in Western Australia can split superannuation the same way as married couples. You can read more in the Legal Aid WA guide to superannuation splitting.
- Inheritances and gifts: Whether they're included depends on how the money was used " if it benefited the couple, it may form part of the property pool.
- Business interests: Running a business adds complexity, often requiring expert valuations, and even unpaid admin work by a partner can count as a contribution.
- Family violence: Courts may take violence or coercive control into account when assessing contributions and future needs. For confidential help, contact 1800RESPECT or call 000 in an emergency.
Agreements and mediation
You don't always need a judge to decide. Many couples resolve matters through mediation or negotiation. If you reach an agreement, you can make it binding with Consent Orders approved by the court, or through a lawyer-drafted Binding Financial Agreement. The Court's Consent Orders guide explains how the process works.
A practical checklist
- Note down the separation date and keep proof such as an email, text, or change of address.
- Collect financial documents like bank statements, payslips, super balances and property valuations.
- Make a list of assets and debts in both names and individually.
- Explore mediation before filing in court.
- Get advice before signing anything formal.
Common mistakes to avoid
- Missing the two-year deadline " courts rarely extend time.
- Not disclosing assets " full and frank disclosure is required.
- Settling informally " handshake agreements aren't enforceable.
- Forgetting tax or stamp duty " formal agreements often unlock exemptions. For example, the WA duties fact sheet outlines how transfers can be exempt if properly documented.
Beyond the financial side
Property is only part of the story. Separation can be emotionally draining and affect every part of your life. Many people find comfort in resources like the break-up survival guide, while advice on money and relationships can help reduce financial stress during the transition. Looking after your wellbeing alongside the legal process can make the path forward much smoother.
FAQs
Do de facto partners have the same rights as married couples?
Generally yes, especially under the Family Law Act for financial matters.
Can I apply if we never had joint accounts?
Yes. Joint finances are one factor, but courts look at the whole relationship.
Is spousal maintenance possible?
Yes, if one partner cannot support themselves and the other can contribute.
Final thoughts
De facto couples in Australia have significant property rights, but the rules aren't always obvious. By knowing how the law defines relationships, what property is included, and the strict deadlines that apply, you can protect yourself and make clear decisions. If you're separating, take steps early and seek advice so your financial future is secure.
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