Lets go back into time now. Do you remember when you were goingout to the movies with your boyfriend. There you were sitting inthe theater and this romantic scene comes on. Next thing you knowtheres a kissing scene so hot you can practically feel it. All ofa sudden you look at each other and he plants that hot and juicykiss you so eagerly accept.
Sound familiar? Can you honestly say you werent turned on? I dontthink so! To go even further, I could bet my bottom dollar your manwas extremely turned-on also. After all, I went to the movies myself.The point is that kissing is one of the very basic things we all didin the beginning of our relationships. Back when our relationshipswere passionate. Then for one reason or another, we moved away fromthe things that worked. The simple things. Then we sit around wonderingwhats missing. What happened to all that passion?
Basics have to be practiced daily. Thats what brings mastery inanything. Even our passion.
Its easy to forget what got us to where we are now. Wasnt it onesuccessful kiss that started it all? If the answer is yes, as Im sureit must be, why stop now? Why not enhance our strategy for successfulkissing?
To have a successful kiss you must keep three things in mind. Where,when and how. By successful, I mean a kiss that will give you control.Not just a regular good morning or good night kiss.
How depends on what you want to accomplish. A light and short kiss canbe used to entice or to tease. Where a long and passionate kiss can setthe stage for the main act.
When and where are of major importance. From this moment on you shouldconstantly keep your mind open to find new places and situations wherekissing will open your appetite for each other. Stopping in a downpourof rain to kiss passionately can create louder thunder than youve everheard. Have you ever kissed passionately in an elevator? What about inyour favorite restaurant? Or at a red light? The list is endless. Yourjob is to find new, more unusual places. Try them all. Youll find thatthe more unusual, the hotter the kiss will be for you both. Try it andsee for yourself.
Exercise: Today give your lover a juicy, 30 second kiss. Make it hot.Do it right out of the blue. Just plant one on him and see how he reacts.Also, use your imagination to discover more sensual areas that you cankiss and or lick.
Finally, practice, practice, practice.
Michael S. Martinez is a freelance writer and author of'Secrets of Sexcess'. For more information visit www.self-educator.com/victoriacb.htm